Africa Day 1&2

Hello everyone,
This is Joe Myers, Jessica's husband.
Over the next week or so I will be posting my journal of our trip to Nairobi Kenya. Quick background: We partnered with AIM Air for my college internship for Mission Aviation.
We want to thank you all for sharing in our endeavors, for your support and prayers. God really has shown us amazing things this year, and you have all been a great encouragement to us.

May 12: We arrived late Thursday night in Nairobi Kenya. We were met by Jim, and Randy from AIM Air, who took us to the Mayfield house, an enroot complex owned by AIM who offer housing and three meals a day for missionary travelers. We were scared that Ben (our 6 month old) would not sleep but he ended up sleeping better than any of us. Friday morning we woke up in time for 7:30 breakfast.  It's hard to miss, due to the man who walks the halls clanging his triangle.

May 13: After breakfast we met with Cammy (an AIM wife) to review the weeks itinerary she had put together to help us get started, and some culture need to knows for our success. We have been going through AIM Air’s orientation and meeting many missionary families. We are staying at Mayfield, a transit guesthouse owned by AIM. There are people coming and going for short and long periods of time. We have met many remote missionaries, in town for a break or for supplies. Gregg (my good friend from school, also doing his internship) and I took public transportation (Matatu) to find the hanger. A Kenyan named James who works at Mayfield guided us. The public transportation is mini-vans outfitted with as many seats as possible, and loaded to the max with people. Many times there were not enough seats, but that didn’t deter the doorman from cramming more people in.

The doorman is a partner with the driver. His job is money exchange and to communicate to the driver that he needs to pull over and let someone out or in by tapping a coin on the window. He is very aware of everything going on, a woman behind me reached over me and touched him with one finder, not a poke or even a scratch, a simple light touch. Instantly the man tapped rapidly on the window and the driver barreled through three lanes of traffic to reach the next stop. When you hear of a city without traffic law enforcement Nairobi Kenya must be at the top of the list. Police men are posted at busy roundabouts on foot, armed with a small club. If they choose to stop someone and ticket them, they get in that car and ride with that person to the police station. On they way their goal is to talk the driver into paying them off so that the police officer can pocket the money and the driver gets away without a ticket. The highway, now under construction, has no lanes, and often drivers will take the off road rout to get one more car ahead. Defensive drivers have a life expectance of about 30 minutes. After that drivers are in one of three places: heaven, hell, or born again into offensive driving.

James also took us to the slums, where over one million people live in tin built shacks, with filthy living conditions, in a lower than poverty environment. Every house is connected to the next following a narrow dirt path usually washed out by the rain. Small shops are set along the walkway, to sell daily supplies of food and other things. Also they have radio, and shoe repairs, and people sell used cloths that have been shipped in from other countries. I have not reached a caliber in my writing or language that can describe this area. Pictures would be useless in trying to bring justice to the slums of Nairobi, and I felt ashamed at the depths of my being for simply walking through and knowing I did not have to stay. After 20 minutes of walking we had arrived at a gate. A door opened and we walked through to see children running and playing. James had taken us to his Church that is also a school. I don’t have pictures, because James instructed me to leave the camera back at the guesthouse. A small wooden building and multiple smaller tin buildings, and boxcar building surrounded a dirt yard with only 2 slides to play on. To the right of the yard is the cement framework of a new building that has been in work for the last five years. Though the slums look and sound like a horrific place, some people take full advantage of its convenience. Yes, I said convenience. The slums were started from people who traveled from out of town to work in the city for the week and return to their family for the weekend. Often these were people who owned farms and had family or employees to work their land during the week. To them the slums are rent free housing, with everything they need at the very reasonably rate. After a while people who lived in the city moved into the slums because there is not many who can loose a job and financially recover. Just over the last five years Kenya has discovered payment plans for things like cars and houses. They don’t have recovery plans like bankruptcy, so if you loose a job or something drastic happens in life, you just move to the slums in order to stay alive.

This is Mayfield where we stayed.

On our way to Africa

It was 2am on Friday as we packed up our car got our baby snuggled into his car seat with a warm blanket and headed out to Dallas to catch our first flight of our summer trip. Once we got on the high way we drove for 35 min before seeing another car on the road, just us and the semi-trucks. We got to the terminal in plenty of time and Ben did great on the airplane!

Our first stop, Burlington, Vermont to visit with Joe's mom & step-dad. I finally got to see the town that Joe went to high school in and see his old room. Ben made friends with their cat, Charlie right away. That night his mom fixed us steaks to celebrate Joe passing his classes and enjoyed some time sifting through a memory box she kept for Joe. He had some pretty funny hair-do's back when he was a little tike.

Saturday came and we were going to get mother's day pedicures, but the car was messed up. So instead we made some yummy breakfast while Ben napped and the boys piled sand bags around the back of the house (they had record breaking floods this month). After breakfast (around 10:45) I took my first anti-Malaria pill. At 11 I started feeling sick, 12:30 I was having some serious pain in my stomach and at 1 I started vomiting.

Joe's parents planned a barbecue so that friends of the family could say hello to Joe and meet Ben and I. So, people were showing up around 3, and by this time I was lying on the floor in his parents room which is just across the hall from the bathroom. One of his mom's friends does Reiki and asked if she could work with me. I didn't know much about it so I just said it was ok. She started by praying to mother & father god. So I instantly started to pray too, to the real God. I prayed that He be glorified somehow through this even if it is by me getting worse. She did calm me down with her gentle voice and soft touch and I did get worse. I got feverish, I had cold chills, I could not keep anything down, and I was starting to get dehydrated. By 8pm I could not take the pain and the dry heaving anymore and Joe took me to the emergency room.

At the emergency room I was hooked up to an IV and given medicine for nausea, a bag of saline, and some anti-inflamitories for the pain. I was also ordered to stop taking the medication. So I am going to Africa with just bug spray and garlic pills for mosquito protection. I felt a whole lot better by the time the bag was emptied. By the time they discharged me I was starting to feel a bit sick again. They sent me home with 2 more Nausea pills and I took one when we got back to his parents. I drank a big glass of gatorade and had a couple bites of a bagel.

While we were gone Ben had 3 huge fits and had refused to eat a bottle. He had calmed down and was a sleep when we got back, so I waited until after I got settled before I took him from Grandma. He was so happy that Joe and I were home and he slept in-between us all night. I threw up 2 more times in the middle of the night and I was still pretty uneasy all Sunday.

At about 3am Joe woke up feeling nauseous and couldn't go back to sleep until about 6. He slept almost all day Sunday. So my first Mother's day was a recovery day for us.

Monday we woke up early had some coffee, packed up the car, and drove back to the airport. It was a short hour and 20 min flight to New York. We got picked up by a driver and he took us to Pearl River where AIM's United States headquarters is. We had cold hamburgers and freezer-burned fries for lunch and I was still feeling a bit sick. After lunch our other team member Gregg showed up and had a tour of the facility and met the people we have been coordinating with through phone and emails. The facility here is beautiful and our room has a crib in it for Ben! The people are pleasant and they lent us the community car to drive to Target to get a couple things we forgot to pack.

Tomorrow is our first day of Orientation and training. It is going to be a very busy day. Ben is going to be in the nursery so we are not distracted from important information. Hopefully he does not give the care taker too much trouble.

Ok, time for sleep.